摘要:大学生恋爱是当代中国大学校园中普遍存在的现象。青春里有了爱情，总是充满着幸福和甜蜜，但是大学生在大学期间尚处于心理和生理发育走向成熟的时期，恋爱状况对大学生人生观、价值观、恋爱观的形成有着直接的影响。恋爱观又作为其人生观和价值观的具体体现，又影响着恋爱的结果和进程，并反作用于大学生的健康成长。
受中国传统文化影响和新时代西方外来文化的冲击，我国大学生恋爱观发生了潜移默化的改变。同时男女生的恋爱观在性别上也存在差异，本文通过问卷调查了解大学生恋爱观，分析男女生恋爱观差异，结果发现：男女生在恋爱时机选择、恋爱态度、恋爱的择偶以及性观念的态度上存在着明显差异。为帮助和引导大学生树立正确健康的恋爱观，大学生自身、学生家长、学校以及社会从各个方面都应该做出相应努力，并且从男女生性别差异的角度出发，才能够更好的帮助男女大学生正确认识恋爱问题，树立正确健康的恋爱观。
关键词：大学生 恋爱观 性别差异
ABSTRACT:College students love is ubiquitous phenomenon in the contemporary Chinese university campus. Youth have love, is always filled with happiness and sweetness, but college students in college at the stage of the maturity of the psychological and physiological development time, love the smooth or not, to the formation of the college students outlook on life and values have a direct impact. Love, and as the embodiment of the outlook on life and values, affect the result of the relationship and processes, and to adverse effect on the healthy growth of college students.
By the Chinese traditional culture and a new era of Western impact of foreign culture, China's University Student Love undergone a subtle change. Both boys and girls to love there are also differences in terms of gender, the paper questionnaires campus love to understand, analyze differences between boys and girls comes to love, The results showed that: the timing of boys and girls in love, love, attitude, love the concept of mate choice and sexual attitudes vary significantly by region. To help and guide students to establish a correct and healthy to love, the students themselves, parents, schools and society in all its aspects should make the appropriate efforts, And gender differences in male and female students from the perspective of men and women to be able to better help students correct understanding of love problems, establish the correct health comes to love.
Keywords：college students ；view of love ；gender differences
